Only Her Hairdresser Knows For Sure

Funny thing.  When I was in my early 40s I kept getting called (and cast, at one point) as a 60 year-old.  Now that I am “in the ballpark” so to speak, I’m seen as too young to audition for a 60-something.  It’s weird.  But age in this business is weird.  In my 20s I auditioned for Hamlet.  I wore a cherry dress, curled my hair, put on pink blush … and was asked to read for Gertrude.  In my 30s I went to audition for a role for a 20-something and laughed when I saw a friend at the audition who was also “faking it.”  We had both shopped for new shoes, coming to the conclusion that a generation could be defined by its footwear.  In my 40s I went on a round of agents in NYC.  In one room the agent said “you are probably 40s but I can see you doing 30s and it would get you more work.”  In the NEXT ROOM not FIVE MINUTES later the next agent said “you are probably 40s but I can see you doing 50s and it would get you more work.”  So, can I really pull off a 20-30 year age range?  Probably not.  It brings up a very interesting point, however.  Perception of age is highly subjective.  Let me say that again — Perception of age is highly subjective.  Fun fact.  Most of the women on TV playing mothers are, on average, about 12 years older than the women playing their daughters.  So, a good while back, I decided to heck with it.  I would, and will, continue to audition for roles I feel chronologically appropriate for.  Don’t take offense, directors.  If you feel I’m not a good fit, that’s fine.  Just remember that any random assembly of people of the same age aren’t going to look alike.